When you stumble and fall while hearing the sound of people laughter it imprints in yourself the continuous embarassement of the situation. Every single one of these situations just puts a mental mark like that cannot be erased, it is like a knife imprint on a tree – two things that benefit u the most, u always try to hold on and avoid falling (at least try) but the most important, you stop laughing at people in similar situation and always be prompt to support them.
It is amazing how harsh people can treat one another, accepting differences and weakness is just something that does not exist in people book; every time i felt i found a human with appreciation, i got so schokingly burned.
Control and faking a normal interface is what i mastered across the years, made me stronger, not only by covering defects but by also by supporting others with defects that are thrown out the barrier of the harsh NORMAL definitions of the humans!
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It is one thing to accept differences and support people who need it and it is another thing to have an opinion in certain situations and find a way to express it. Appreciating people and their weaknesses should not blind our eyes from seeing and having an opinion and finding a way to voice it. There are two ways to look at it: caring by supporting (feeling the weaknesses) or caring by saying what you really think and feel. they are not too extremes, they meet in the middle because there is a way to care and feel the weakness yet, express yourself and share what you think.
"Control and faking a normal interface is what i mastered across the years, made me stronger, not only by covering defects but by also by supporting others with defects that are thrown out the barrier of the harsh NORMAL definitions of the humans!"
I totaly understand this and it is what i have learnt too …..Harsh but true
I came across your post again, this time couldn’t help but make a comment .. I read the 1st one and thought maybe not this time, but this post made me take time and ponder a bit ..before I get to write you this “ there is singer that describes a situation in life as this: everybody\’s on the stage, and it seems like you\’re the only person sitting in the audience?
To me that what happens when someone falls, is simple …people take their social insecurity on the Fallen, like we have this proverb that says something like “ when I saw his problem, I was telling myself “and I thought I was the one with problems” people would rather be mean than be the crying shoulder … it is so typical of us human to do this …. And those scars that we imprint or inflict upon others – to some – is like a medal of honor .. after all it warns the others not to miss around with US !!
But the Strong or Noble Ones find it hard to come down on an opponent @ a moment of bad luck or weakness…simply cause THEY CHOOSE NOT TOO.. only the Weak get to attack others and be part of the ragging crowd..only the WEAK people forget the aim of competition.. it is not to win all the time..or be victories regardless of how you achieve that .. people take Ruthless for Professional .. they take the image of Successful for Successful simply cause they can’t tell the difference .. however, some people will REMAIN capable of feeling Appreciation, Compassion for others, and Sympathy.. cause they can picture or remember a similar situation where they were @ the same spotlight and under heavy fire or criticisim for missing a detail or causing a situation to go terribly wrong.. they still can relate and believe me when i say "people just get scared" of showing this side lest they are taken for MEEK….
and that is something you don\’t want to be labled with … well not in this tough world…
So if you are setting with the audience and seeing life mistreats someone that you care for, stand up for this someone make a difference ..maybe the rest of the people around will become courageous enough to follow your footprints..and become HUMAN again ..cheers